Mom,

I grew up without realizing how hard you've had to survive everything alone since you were a child. You always listened to all my stories, even when you were about to go to bed after doing all your work throughout the day. You were always excited to hear everything I told you, but I never asked you, "How about you, Mom? How was your day? What did you do all day? Are you happy today? Are you okay? Do you want or need something? Are you tired?" and anything else that I never realized you're still an ordinary human who needs someone to care and ask about your feelings. Sorry, I'm really sorry.

I know you're not pretending to be okay, you just forget all your pain when you're around your child because you give all your mind to them and won't share it with yourself, even just for a small moment


Mom,

Now that I have become an adult at 19, and after living alone and far away from you, I truly understand your love, your struggles, and the story of your life. Since your childhood, you may not have a beautiful time as a kid, teenager, and even when you got married. Many of the things you wished for were missed.

Mom, I apologize for being selfish towards you. I'm sorry for not thinking of you during my school years, for being mean because I never paid attention to your feelings.

If I was born again, I would choose to be your mother. I would give you all the love and everything you wished for as a child. Mom, I will do my best for my future. I know there are many dreams you have for me, and I will make you proud someday so that you don't have to worry about my life anymore.

I promise, Mom, that someday we will walk in your favorite places together, fly to every dream city of yours, buy all the gorgeous things you want, eat every delicious food, and stroll through the streets of strange countries. I want to make you feel like you were born again, to make you feel that you have a beautiful life to live, and to make you feel loved.

Mom, you gave your world to me. Please stay beside me for a long time. I don't know how to face this world if you were to leave. I love you, Mom.

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